@Tomondo Okay, so let me understand this clearly.
One day transvestites gathered together and decided, that transvestite word is bad and offensive, and whoever speaks it, is automatically showing disrespect to transvestite community. Because they would like to be called cross-dressers (which into Latin still translates as transvestite), as it doesn't remind them or point out their transvestic disorder, transvestism or transvestic fetishism, which are medical terms for this mental illness they have.